Over the Top by Jonathon Van Ness
Publication Date: September 24, 2019
Genre: Adult Memoir
Rating: 4.5 Stars
Audio Narration: 5 Stars
Who gave Jonathan Van Ness permission to be the radiant human he is today? No one, honey.
The truth is, it hasn’t always been gorgeous for this beacon of positivity and joy.
Before he stole our hearts as the grooming and self-care expert on Netflix’s hit show Queer Eye, Jonathan was growing up in a small Midwestern town that didn’t understand why he was so…over the top. From choreographed carpet figure skating routines to the unavoidable fact that he was Just. So. Gay., Jonathan was an easy target and endured years of judgement, ridicule and trauma—yet none of it crushed his uniquely effervescent spirit.
Over the Top uncovers the pain and passion it took to end up becoming the model of self-love and acceptance that Jonathan is today. In this revelatory, raw, and rambunctious memoir, Jonathan shares never-before-told secrets and reveals sides of himself that the public has never seen. JVN fans may think they know the man behind the stiletto heels, the crop tops, and the iconic sayings, but there’s much more to him than meets the Queer Eye.
You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, and you’ll come away knowing that no matter how broken or lost you may be, you’re a Kelly Clarkson song, you’re strong, and you’ve got this.
This book was bought by me, all thoughts and opinions are my own.
NON SPOILERY REVIEW
HONEY! This book was EXACTLY what I needed to start 2020 off right. This book had me going YES QUEEN straight from the get go. JVN is not only an inspiration to people everywhere, but this memoirs proves that he’s been unapologetically him from the get go and that was so refreshing. His spirit shined through from the moment he decided he would make a name for himself while carpet figure skating.
I listened to this book via audio and I wouldn’t have it any other way. While you don’t NEED his voice to get the context, some of the inflections he adds to his stories are just so much more entertaining. This book made me laugh, tear up, and then filled my heart with hope. I also really want to hug his mom because she is the original queen of fierceness. I love her.
While some of the things that JVN talks about (sexual abuse, STDS, drug use, harassment, etc) may be difficult to discuss, he talks about what happened openly, and provides resources for anyone who may be struggling with these issues. This isn’t as much of a “how to” but more of a, “you don’t have to be a product of your past,” type books. I really encourage my friends to read this if they need a little pick me up!
This book is available now at most book retailers, in store or online!
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